Posted by: jenty | April 10, 2008

Caused a scene

OK, so finally, I get to post today!  I’ve put the kids to bed (or rather we did), done my photo post, finished designing Bradley’s Ben 10 party invitations and printing them (they had to be done today because tomorrow is the last day of school for the term)… and now I can relax.

Today was a first for me.  It was the first time I’ve left a trolley of groceries and just gone home rather than fight.

I took the boys to our local Woolies food store tonight to get a roast chicken for supper.  Second night in a row… and guess what… they didn’t have any AGAIN!  What’s with that anyway?  Evening shoppers are looking for a fast meal… and they are losing customers by not having roast chickens!!  So that was enough to set my blood boiling because I was already late… it was 6:15pm already.  So, now I’m dithering… I can’t decide what to buy that’s going to be fast and we NEED veggies tonight.  We’ve had too many veggie-less meals this week.

Connor was sitting in the trolley and Bradley pushing it.  Connor starts grabbing at items on the shelves and pushing them off and Bradley starts getting bored.  He starts growling at Connor and teasing him… touching him and then pushing the trolley away etc. 

Eventually Connor gets so fed up and scratches Bradley all over his face.  He basically attacked him (I don’t blame him actually, Bradley was being a pest).  Then he yells at him.  Bradley starts whining and then eventually crying because I’m not giving him enough attention. 

By then, the whole shop is looking at me, because this is happening right next to the line for the tills.  so I told Bradley to move out the way and move to the front of the trolley away from Connor and walk next to me.  He refuses.  ARRGHHH!!! 

I eventually got so the hell in, that I grabbed both of them, and got out of there.  There was no way I was standing in the queue with both of them, in that small space, vying for attention and grabbing sweets from the shelves, and then still have to get home and start cooking!!  So I cut my losses, and left all the groceries in the trolley in the middle of an aisle and went home… with Bradley crying now… in fact wailing… because we have “NO FOOD IN THE HOUSE MOMMY!!”.

People were still staring at me when I drove the car out the parking lot… with Bradley still wailing!  Because now, I’ve threatening him with not being able to shop with me ever again if he carries on like that.  ARRRGHHH I cannot win!

OK, I’m all worked up again, think I need more coffee now!

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I’ve read that that is the best thing to do! Well done!

I’ve had the same thing at my local Spar before - no more roast chickens at 4 pm! They’re just not paying attention to customer needs…

ohhh I’m not looking forward to those days :( (((hugs))) to you! I bet Bradley was totally shocked that you’d actually walked out of there - hopefully next time you’ll just need to remind him of today and he won’t be so bad… hopefully. ;)

Hopefully that scared the bejesus out of Bradley!! I know how much he loves going shopping with you! Those BLOODY till queues at Woolies are a nightmare for mothers with small kids. I have to keep the trolley / pram in the EXACT middle so Jason can’t reach anything! So what DID you end up having for supper? Spur?
:-)

right on….suck for you today, but it should pay off in the future.

hugs!

Ugh - it’s the pits- I swear these shops colludes against mothers with kids in tow :(

Ugh, Squidge had a fit at Borders on Saturday. I was sooo embarrassed but stuck to my guns. I just hauled her outside and had a chat with her until she calmed down and behaved. Hard to do with a 21 month old! Good luck and I hope it doesn’t happen again any time soon!!

Oh boy Jeanette - that doesn’t sound like fun at all! Woolies really should make more chickens if they are running out before the evening rush, how silly.

What did you land up eating?

Oh geez, I’m so sorry this happened. Hopefully your threat convinces him to be better next time. Drives me nuts when stores run out of chickens before dinner time :( It’s like wasting a trip to the store.

No, no, honey, that’s the best thing to do!

It’s terrible when it happens, and deadly boring when you’re looking at ketchup-and-tuna sandwiches for supper (because there is nothing else in the house) (been there!) but the next time you say ‘We will leave right now if you don’t straighten up, sit down and stop whaling the hell out of each other (or, you know, a nicer way to put it)

THEY’LL LISTEN.

I can totally relate… except now that my kids are bigger, I want to leave for different reasons!!

You did the right thing - TOTALLY. Boy, am I learning about follow-through :-)

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